How to Make a Woman Squirt: A Complete Guide

How to help women achieve squirting

Squirting, or female ejaculation, is a unique sexual experience that many couples are curious about. While not every woman will squirt, understanding her body, practicing communication, and approaching intimacy with patience can increase the chances of a rewarding experience. Here’s a step-by-step guide to explore squirting with your partner.

11 steps to make a girl have an orgasm

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1. Set the scene

Just like any sexual experience, intimacy, sensuality, and passion are essential elements. A relaxed mood can also bring you closer to your goal, so make sure to prepare well before penetrating her vagina. Light candles, play sensual music, kiss passionately, and focus on the process rather than the outcome.

2. Adjust your expectations

Lelo sex expert Kate Moyle states that overly high expectations can "make you tense and hard to relax," thereby ruining your squirting plan. "This will distract you from enjoying sex and from experiencing the most wonderful parts of it," she adds. "The goal of a sexual experience should always be pleasure and enjoyment." Amen.

3. Express Your Wishes

We don't need to emphasize this, but mutual consent is crucial! So, before starting, make sure both of you are on board with the concept of gushing. Communication is important, but it can also be sexy, so talk to each other to ensure your thoughts are always aligned. If you feel shy, you can try whispering your desires and fantasies to her.

4. Prepare the Surroundings

Sex should be messy, so if you really want a gush, now isn't the time to cherish your soft furniture. However, the amount of gush varies from person to person—some with a vagina might spray a teaspoon, while others might soak the entire bedsheet. If you're worried about losing your security deposit, pad the area with a towel beforehand.

5. Please engage in more foreplay

Foreplay is crucial and should be the cornerstone of all sexual experiences. If you are a beginner, you can gently bite her neck, kiss her all over. Then slowly build the connection until finally stimulating her clitoris with your mouth, fingers, or sex toys. If you need help, a finger vibrator is a good way to get her in the mood.

6. Familiar with female physiological structure

Effective squirting often requires a combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation, but every woman is different, so experimentation is key. For beginners, the G-spot is an area on the inner front wall of the vagina. It feels textured and often swells during heightened arousal. However, instead of struggling to find a specific stimulation point, it’s better to let her tell you (or even better, let her demonstrate what feels good), which can save a lot of trouble.

7. Unleash your magic

Once you've determined what she likes and both of you are excited, start the party. Turn your palm up, insert two fingers (you can apply some lubricant if necessary), and make suggestive movements inside her vagina. Tap, stroke, and caress her G-spot and the surrounding area, following her hints about what feels pleasurable.

8. Use sex toys!

G-spot stimulation is unlikely to produce any fluid, so clitoral stimulation toys can add fun to sex and increase your chances of achieving the desired effect. "Bring your favorite toy to play with!" Briden said. "Ambit is a fake penis specifically designed for the G-spot, which can accurately stimulate your partner and make your partner have a gush. Blindfolds can also help your partner focus more on all the sensations!"

9. Teamwork makes the dream work

If your girlfriend is proactive during the process, you're more likely to make her reach orgasm, so encourage her to alternate squeezing your fingers until she starts to feel a tingling sensation. However, what works for one woman might not be comfortable for another, so check on her frequently. If she hasn't orgasmed after 40 minutes of continuous effort, take a break and try again later.

10. Control your rhythm

For most people, squirting only occurs when the G-spot area is engorged. So, when it starts to swell, don't stop! Maintain a steady rhythm and keep the same finger movements and pressure. "Once you hit that best spot, keep stimulating it," Briden advises. "Once you start stimulating the G-spot, your partner might feel a tingling sensation, like they need to urinate," he adds. "But be patient. If it doesn't happen this time—keep using the techniques you've learned and go slow."

11. Don't feel pressured

While stimulating the G-spot area might help her squirt, it doesn't guarantee success. "It's important to remember that women's orgasm experiences vary greatly, so one person's typical orgasm experience might be very different from another's," said Dr. Sheela Lakhanpal, an intimate health expert. "Medically, there's no surefire way to induce orgasm, the key is to find what works for the individual—and that often requires a lot of trial and error," she added.

How to Make a Girl Ejaculate During Sex: Sexual Positions

Want to make a woman ejaculate during penetration sex? Any sexual position that can simultaneously stimulate her G-spot and clitoris has the potential to cause female ejaculation.

In intimate relationships, exploring different sexual positions can bring novelty and deeper pleasure to both partners. Here are several classic sexual positions, each with its unique charm and techniques, helping you and your partner better enjoy sex.

1. Human layering style

This is a position that makes penetration simple and intimate. You lie flat, she straddles your waist and abdomen, then lies face-up on your chest with her legs spread. You use your hands to hold her thighs, allowing you to control the depth, rhythm, and angle of penetration relatively freely.

Sex Tip for Couples: During moments of passion, she might lose her balance, so you must hold her legs firmly to ensure her safety and comfort, allowing her to fully immerse herself.

2. Stand with legs together vertically

This position can bring an extremely deep sense of penetration and tightness. Have her lie flat, lift her legs up to form a 90-degree angle with her body, and then kneel in front of her, holding her legs and pressing them against your chest. With her legs pressed together, you can experience a level of tightness like never before.

Sex Tip: During intense movement, her back may lift off the bed, causing discomfort. While enjoying the pleasure, pay attention to her body's condition to ensure her back is properly supported, avoiding unnecessary strain.

3. Seated Lotus Position

This position is led by her, allowing her to fully control the rhythm. You sit cross-legged on the bed, with her sitting on your lap, her legs wrapped around your waist. She can guide the intimacy through upward and downward or forward and backward movements.

Sex Tip: To better support your bodies, you can lean against the wall or the headboard of the bed. This will help maintain balance and allow both of you to more fully enjoy the experience.

4. Post-mating

The entry from behind is a primal and wild position. She kneels on her knees, supporting herself on the bed or the floor with her hands, and you enter from behind her. This position not only fulfills the need for depth but also allows you to experience the most primal passion.

Sex Tip for Couples: Some women may find this position lacking in intimacy. To compensate for this, you can try whispering softly during the process, or gently caressing her back, hair, or even lightly tapping her buttocks to enhance emotional connection.

5. Bowing Hip-Lift Pose

If pursuing depth is your primary goal, this position can well satisfy you. Have her lean her body forward, bending over the sofa or edge of the bed, with her hips raised and her legs slightly spread. This way, you can achieve a deeper insertion angle.

Sex Tip: If she feels this position is too "male-centric," you can lean forward slightly, pressing your chest against her back. This will make her feel connected to you rather than feeling like she's "sacrificing" her own pleasure for your sake.

Regardless of the position chosen, it's important to remember that sex is about two people. While pursuing ultimate pleasure, don't forget to focus on her feelings, because only when she is fully immersed can your intimate experience truly reach its climax.